Tuesday, February 03, 2009

corporal punishment

my son grew up with his group of friends in church who were all born within months of each other in 2002. 3, including the boy, are in the same class in primary 1 while the 4th is enrolled at another school.

he is particularly close to this girl - he used to chat in class & spend recess time with her. i'd even go on to say they'd be inseparable if the teachers didn't intervene. just today, the teacher smacked her with a ruler & she cried her heart out, a response i suspect to be a result of not ever been punished by her parents. now, she doesn't want to go to school for fear of another beating.

so i asked the boy, what if he gets punished by the teacher. i'll try not to be naughty in class, he replied.

what if the girl gets transferred out to another school & he loses his best friend, i tested him. this is what he has to say: it's ok because i still have to go to school.

i'd say he's got things under control, but it's still early days yet.

The rod and reproof give wisdom,
But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother
.
prov 29:15, NASB

**image : NST, 29.6.2000**

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wise kid, you got rhere, Doc.

You & Mrs Doc are bringing him up well with HIS guidance.

iml said...

Your boy definately has his two feet firmly secured on the ground.

Michelle Mak said...

me backie!
got connection already...

wuah....ur son vr firm ler...
well..good start at a young age ler :)

zewt said...

looks like you have a man in the making already...

doc said...

Jems,

i pray he remains wise all the days of his life.

doc said...

Iml,

hopefully he doesn't depart from from the path of the Lord.

doc said...

Mich,

you must be glad to be back in bloggosphere. hope you are adapting well to life up north.

doc said...

Zewt,

a man....hmm...now i can't help wondering what he'll be like when he grows up.

every bit like me, i would imagine...heh ...heh!

Anonymous said...

Your boy is really cool! Usually boys are naughtier and crazier than girls.. but seems like it is just stereotyping.

doc said...

Lynnx,

occasionally, he has his temper tantrums but generally, he is well-behaved.